Sunday, March 15, 2009, 08:51 PM
Posted by Hans K. Meyer
Posted by Hans K. Meyer
Gather 'round young 'uns, and I'll tell you a story.It's about the time before everyone was on Facebook, about the time when you had to have a .edu e-mail address to get in. Your nerdy storyteller was a budding Internet researcher at the time and he happened to be a grad student, so he signed up for the grand experiment never thinking much about it. He languished with less than a dozen friends for more nearly two years. But then, a funny thing started to happen. People he hadn't seen or heard from in years started "poking" him. Seemed like they wanted to be his "friends" again, and he gladly accepted. Before too long again, he was the Bell of the Ball, and he lived happily ever after.
Yes, that was supposed to sound like a fairy tale, but strangely enough, it's all mostly true (except for the "Bell of the Ball" part). I started writing this fairy tale because my wife recently challenged me to step back and take an objective look at the social networking phenomenon. She basically called the site a passing fad, akin to Ugg boots and Tivo. As much as I want to disagree with her, my own history with the site suggests as much. I didn't really become a Facebook power user (or colossal time waster) until everyone else started joining.
Applying what I know about communication theory and even the results of a Facebook survey I helped another doctoral student administer on campus, that's probably the way it should be. You could almost think of Facebook like the early telephone. A phone was pretty useless if you were on the only one on the block to have one, but become exponentially more useful as larger and larger groups of people started installing them in their homes. In fact, our study suggested that Facebook forges such powerful connections between online friends that people rate news stories sent by their friends more credible than those sent by news organizations.
My Facebook attention waxes and wanes. Some days I struggle for an hour to come up with the perfect status update while on others, I hardly care what happened. I still love finding old friends on the site, but my definition of friend has definitely become looser and looser the more time I spend there. Honestly, I vacillate between whether Facebook is a powerful tool for social cohesion and relationship building or, like my wife, whether it's simply a fad as transitory as the Pet Rock. (I really hope Tivo last a long, long time, or at least until I can afford one.)
In the end, I think I realize what Facebook really is. It's simply a tool, just like a shovel. It really all depends on how people decide to use it. If the best Facebook applications we can come up with are Vampire hunting games and hucking Legos and In and Out Burgers at each other, then I think Facebook will go the way of the Rubik's Cube. But if can find useful ways to make the tenuous connections we make online have real world implications, then I think Facebook will not only survive, but it can become a communications tool more powerful than the newspaper or telephone. That's why I decided to write about it here, on my "professional" blog. It's up to those of us researching, designing and evangelizing the future of media to step back and analyze this funny tool we have in Facebook and decide how to most effectively use it.
Many of my friends are already on the cutting edge, to some degree. I like the instant status updates I get through Twitter. I follow a lot of the links people post to keep on top of the news (Through Facebook, I learned about the latest controversial episode of Big Love, and I even joined the group.) I can even sometimes get 3 out of 5 on the New York Times news quiz.
But we can't stop there. We could all use a challenge to step away from the screen for a minute to try to figure out how we can dig better holes with Facebook. I'm sure Mark Zuckerberg won't mind.




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